There are two people you’ll meet in your life. One will run a finger down the index of who you are and jump straight to the parts of you that peak their interest. The other will take his or her time reading through every one of your chapters and maybe fold corners of you that inspired them most. You will meet these two people; it is a given. It is the third that you’ll never see coming. That one person who not only finishes your sentences, but keeps the book.
Sometimes, life might seem like it has reached an all time low, but don’t forget that it can only go up from there. #optimism
Don’t dwell on past mistakes. Just take them as lessons learned and don’t let yourself make the same mistakes again. #experience
Stop complaining and actually do something about your issues. #proactivity
Stop victimizing yourself or blaming others for your misfortunes. Take a second and reflect on the situation. Maybe, you were the cause of all your problems the whole time. Just own up to it and move on. #growth
Don’t forget that you have friends that will always have your back. It’s okay to ask for help. You don’t have to fight your battles alone. #support
"You either like me or you don’t. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don’t have that kinda time to convince somebody else."
"There’s a reason I said I’d be happy alone. It wasn’t ’cause I thought I’d be happy alone. It was because I thought if I loved someone and then it fell apart, I might not make it. It’s easier to be alone, because what if you learn that you need love and you don’t have it? What if you like it and lean on it? What if you shape your life around it and then it falls apart? Can you even survive that kind of pain? Losing love is like organ damage. It’s like dying. The only difference is death ends. This? It could go on forever."
“In their desire to escape from outside stressors, the unhealthy INTJ may retreat not only mentally through perpetual abstract thinking, but even physically. At the extreme, the INTJ may become almost completely disconnected from the outside world around them.”